Buchcover: Die Kunst, im Chaos zu erziehen

New book · 2026

The Art of Parenting Through Chaos

Making kids strong in the digital world — media, screen time, and inner strength without rigid rules.

220 pages · 1st edition 2026 · Telemach Verlag · ISBN 978-3-98641-297-5 · €18

Description

Smartphones, games, social media, AI — kids today grow up in a world that moves faster than any parenting rule from yesterday. Many parents feel caught between expectations and everyday reality: "How much is too much?" "What's harmless — and what's addictive?" "How do we stay in conversation without arguing every single day?"

This book isn't a catalog of app bans, and it's not a moral sermon. It's a clear, field-tested guide to how families can function when the outside world is chaos: with orientation, boundaries, connection — and the ability to use digital media consciously, instead of being used by it.

What's this book about?

At its core is one decisive question: how do we raise kids to become independent, strong, and secure in a digital world — without family life turning into a daily power struggle?

Mario Körbler combines technical understanding with years of hands-on work with children, showing how parents can move beyond reactive "firefighting" and instead build a stable foundation: values, rules, rituals, leading by example — and concrete steps that are actually workable.

What to expect

An accessible look at digitalization, AI, and the mechanisms behind digital stimuli. Clear guardrails for smartphones, games, and social media — without panic, but with consequences. Family rules that actually work: times, zones, agreements, and reliable rituals. Practical tools for putting it into practice, such as a "digital family charter" and a mini motivation contract. Ideas for how kids move from consuming to creating — curious, creative, and self-effective. Strengthening inner attitude and self-assurance — with everyday approaches drawn from training with children.

Who is this book for?

For anyone who wants more calm, clarity, and reliability in digital family life. Who won't demonize media, but won't romanticize it either. Who wants to set boundaries without losing connection. Who wants to guide kids toward maturity, self-efficacy, and stability — and is looking for concrete, everyday tools rather than pure theory.

What makes this book different

This book thinks digitally and humanly at once. It connects technical reality with the question of what makes kids strong on the inside: attitude, boundaries, self-control, courage, values, and the ability not to drift. What sets it apart: it never stops at "someone really ought to..." but shows how it can actually be done — clearly, pragmatically, and without guilt. Not about being perfect. About being reliable.

Mario Körbler introduces the book

Available at

The book is available at numerous bookstores and online shops across the German-speaking world and beyond.

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